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When you get your invitation to
attend an interview, you may start to feel a
little anxious and apprehensive.
This is quite normal.
In psychological terms, it is
known as performance
anxiety tension.
Although everybody
experiences it - it is important that you know
how to handle it.
Otherwise, in extreme cases, it
can overwhelm you and may adversely affect your performance.
Test anxiety
The prospect of being
interviewed fills many people with anxiety.
However, the first thing to
remember is that this feeling is perfectly normal
- in fact, natural.
It is important we emphasize
this fact.
You're facing an important
interview where the job you want may depend on
your performance - so
naturally you'll feel anxious and nervous.
In fact,
this feeling can be positively
beneficial.
Performance
anxiety, when consciously acknowledged and
directed can actually enhance your performance.
As most
top-class sports people will tell you, a normal
level of performance anxiety can enhance your
performance.
It keeps you awake and alert; it
heightens all your senses;
and when consciously acknowledged and directed,
it can raise your
level of awareness and concentration to a higher
octave of concentrated
focus
However
the reverse is also true: Excessive
anxiety can undo all these positive benefits
so it is important that we learn how
to manage this form of anxiety.
That
feeling…
..
We all
know the feeling.
It seems to rise from the
stomach (butterflies in the belly!) and
gradually and imperceptibly
spread throughout the body.
Your heart may start to silently
thump or your hands sweat.
You may sense a feeling of
terror creep into your awareness sending your
mind into turmoil.
Your calm confidence and
awareness may temporarily vanish and your mind seem
blank.
Powerless
This description may sound
disturbing but we have all, at some time or
other, experienced varying
degrees of this
feeling and the unpleasant thoughts that accompany
it.
The first and most important
thing to remember is that these thoughts,
although unpleasant, have
no real power.
As any counselor or psychologist
will point out,
having these thoughts does not
make them happen.
They
are just a reflection of the performance
anxiety may be filled
with a whole array of irrational thoughts:
'I can't do this Test'. 'I'm
going to fail'. 'My mind will go blank'. I just
know it will.'
Or: 'Even if I know the answers
I won’t be able to express them well.
you are feeling.
Top Tip!
Having these
thoughts does not make them happen. They are
just a reflection of
the performance anxiety you are currently
feeling. They are like dark clouds in the
sky.
Don't curse
them, fight them or take them too seriously.
They will try
to make you believe they are real - that you
should do battle with them.
Don't.
Simply note them as they chase through your mind
… … … fighting for
attention… … … .then disappearing.
Like
the dark clouds in the sky…
...
Infinite
opportunities
Also,
it is essential that you keep your interview in proper
context.
At
the end of the day, it is only an interview and even if you
fail, you will still have hundreds of more opportunities in
the future
This
does not mean that you should not do your very best to
succeed - of course you should.
It
simply means that you should keep the importance of the
interview in proper context.
Although
part of you (your negative self) may try to insist that your
whole future depends on this interview - this is not true
There
are still hundreds and hundreds of job opportunities
in the world for you today.
Do
not put unnecessary and needless pressure on yourself. It
will only hinder your performance
Try
to adopt this mature and healthy attitude
As
any decent financial expert would never advise you to put
all your investments (eggs) in the one basket - likewise in
your career, you should never invest all your hopes on
one opportunity.
Always
remember, there are lots and lots of other opportunities.
Never
believe your whole life is dependent on any one test.
Paradoxically,
as we keep mentioning when you adopt this attitude, you'll
notice that your interview performances will actually
improve.
You
will experience less pressure, and this will help you to
concentrate and respond more quickly to the types of
questions favored by smart interviewers.
Simple
hints to a better interview
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